For the lack of one condom...
I'm frustrated and have the need to vent about how STUPID my kids babydaddys are.
I know what you are thinking - you're pretty stupid yourself for having kids with them in the first place - and I agree completely but still...
For a little background: "babydaddy the first" is supposed to be taking my oldest daughter for the entire summer break from school (as part of his 'visitation'). So first he makes me drive to my second least favorite city, Vallejo, to drop her off because he doesn't want to come to Sacramento to pick her up. He sweetened the deal by saying that he would buy dinner. We get to Vallejo, he is 30 minutes late so we wander around the shopping mall and tried on shoes. I got a tad bit depressed when I found very nice shoes (sandally heeley things) that were only 14.00 and yet...were too expensive for me. We are starving having not eaten because of the promised dinner. He shows up. And gets my daughter and leaves. No soup for me. My stomach just growled in response to these thoughts...
During the brief moments that he was there he told me 'Oh by the way...I'm going to Chicago and my wife is going to Utah for the week. She doesn't want to have to deal with all the kids so can you ask your mom if she can watch her for a week?"
At this point I'm already annoyed because he assumes that my mother, who is looking for work, can just stop looking for a job for a week to take care of our daughter. There is no point where he asked his own family or bothered to look for any other solution. It would seem to me that if I am responsible for every other season in the year including school, uniforms, daycare, clothes, food, piano, choir, etc...that he could figure out what to do for a month and a half. But I let it slide.
Yesterday I emailed him to ask him what week she needed to be home and how she was going to get here and also "by the way you still haven't paid your child support....again".
He emailed me back and said that they would bring her to Sacramento on Saturday and 'oh by the way it's actually 2 weeks..." No word on child support, fucker.
Then this morning I get to work and have ANOTHER email from him, since he apparently has some sort of split personality. This one says that he paid the child support and that his wife would pick her up on the 14th but that now I have to figure out how to pick her up from San Jose.
I hate him!
I know what you are thinking - you're pretty stupid yourself for having kids with them in the first place - and I agree completely but still...
For a little background: "babydaddy the first" is supposed to be taking my oldest daughter for the entire summer break from school (as part of his 'visitation'). So first he makes me drive to my second least favorite city, Vallejo, to drop her off because he doesn't want to come to Sacramento to pick her up. He sweetened the deal by saying that he would buy dinner. We get to Vallejo, he is 30 minutes late so we wander around the shopping mall and tried on shoes. I got a tad bit depressed when I found very nice shoes (sandally heeley things) that were only 14.00 and yet...were too expensive for me. We are starving having not eaten because of the promised dinner. He shows up. And gets my daughter and leaves. No soup for me. My stomach just growled in response to these thoughts...
During the brief moments that he was there he told me 'Oh by the way...I'm going to Chicago and my wife is going to Utah for the week. She doesn't want to have to deal with all the kids so can you ask your mom if she can watch her for a week?"
At this point I'm already annoyed because he assumes that my mother, who is looking for work, can just stop looking for a job for a week to take care of our daughter. There is no point where he asked his own family or bothered to look for any other solution. It would seem to me that if I am responsible for every other season in the year including school, uniforms, daycare, clothes, food, piano, choir, etc...that he could figure out what to do for a month and a half. But I let it slide.
Yesterday I emailed him to ask him what week she needed to be home and how she was going to get here and also "by the way you still haven't paid your child support....again".
He emailed me back and said that they would bring her to Sacramento on Saturday and 'oh by the way it's actually 2 weeks..." No word on child support, fucker.
Then this morning I get to work and have ANOTHER email from him, since he apparently has some sort of split personality. This one says that he paid the child support and that his wife would pick her up on the 14th but that now I have to figure out how to pick her up from San Jose.
I hate him!
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8:29 AM
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